Alan & Florance Wedding

Princess to too eager to come to this world!!!

2008-10-20T23:24:00.002+08:00

She says: My dear princess, nervous mummy is going hospital to bring u to this world tmr afternoon after gynae visit today. U are abt 2 weeks early from expected delivery date becos u r big enuff to come to this world. Daddy is still busy hanging over his work and mummy is still going back office in the morning to pack my stuff and hang over those uncomplete work. Mummy is having flu now but I hope I am still able to breastfeed u. Mummy jus did mask as planned so that I will be seeing u in my best form. How I wish I can wear contact lens to the delivery suite so that mummy will look even better! Hahaha ... But ur dear daddy is kinda upset that u cant share the same birthday with him. Well ... Becos u are the greatest birthday gift he every had!

Mummy's mood like a see-saw

2008-08-22T21:28:00.006+08:00

She says: This week mummy's mood is going up n down. On monday night, Mummy n daddy finally met after daddy went reservist and not allowed to come home for that one week. We went for happy dinner n halfway through I heard that gov announced in rally that maternity leave will be increased to 4mths!! I guess my first response is will this affect my apprasial? In the end, that night I dreamt my apprasial was unsatisfactory. But on Tuesday morning, I have decided that the additional 4 weeks are useful when it comes to taking princess to take jabs, check-up n etc.
But on Wednesday, I was devasted when I read that the enhanced baby perks only applies for babies born on or after 1st Jan. I only got to enjoy tax rebate for birth in 2008.
However, a twist of fate happened on Thursday. Due to a number of appeals, gov is bring forward the effective date to 17th Aug!!! Mummy is so so so happy that I will be able to spend more time with u! But being a perfectionist, how I wish the additional 4 weeks can be shared with daddy so that daddy can accompany us when mummy in confinement. But I guess daddy got 6days childcare leave to utilise for this year so plus his own leave, at least can pei us for at least half a month??
Friday! Mummy's mood fell to the bottom again. Due to the amount of course fee that I will be attending next week, I would required to stay with the company for TWO YEARS!! By then u ald turn 2 years. No more infant but toddler. OMG! TWO YEARS is so so so long. And I get even upset to know one of my colleague is promoted. No la. I am happy for her la but it makes me realised that I lack of opportunity, environment n people to help me to get promoted here and I am jailed for 2 years leh!!!

When u r down, even a small creature wanna bully u

2008-08-12T22:06:00.003+08:00

She says: When u feel really down in ur life, even a small creature wanna bully u. Today is day 2 since I last saw daddy on Sunday. Daddy is having field camp training staring from yday to Sunday. Meaning he wont be able to come back to see us for this whole week. U still remember mummy cried in the car when daddy ask mummy to take care of herself n u on Sunday before he left for camp? And do u remember mummy cried again bitterly when daddy call me on Monday evening? Mummy used to be able to cope sleeping alone at home before I am expecting u. U must be the one who feel sad that daddy will be gone for one whole week n cried inside n in turn make mummy cried?
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Last night, mummy woke up in the middle of the night to pee. Although I am not wearing spec, I vividly saw a black/brown alien thing in the shower area. I went closely n saw it was a COCKROACH! Trying to remain calm, I tried to recall where the hell is the insecticide. Maybe the insecticide is expiring or becos its odourless formula, I almost utilsed the whole bottle before the cockroach finally turn upside down n making it final struggle. I jus left it there and went back to sleep.
In the morning, I collected the body wif a piece of paper n dumped. But I couldnt use the bathroom to bathe cos I worry the floor might be slippery. In the end, mummy got to wash the bathroom today before it can gets back to operation again. What a day! Tired. Tink we have to go slp now. Tmr got to wake up at 5.30am again ...

Princess's nanny fly us aeroplane!!

2008-07-19T19:41:00.000+08:00

She says: Princess's nanny fly us aeroplane!! Before we went for our trip, AT called her to arrange a time to drop by her place to give her deposit. Then she told him that there is baby one mth old liao, maybe wanna give her take care. She can intro her neighbours to us if we want. D*MN! Jus becos we nvr give her deposit then she can happily go back on her words. *pout* But ok la ... She has been trying to help us get replacement but according to her, its still early to look for one now as those of the nannies dare nt commit due to the long period of time. She recommended we can start looking for one in Oct or after i give birth since I will be on 12 weeks maternity leave. She added, alot of parents start to send their kids to childcare centre In January so alot of nannies will be available after that. She has alot of lobangs so need not worry. Scully she oso care until end of the year then she free to take care our princess liao. Very hard to say. Ok ... We shall put our plan to look for nanny on hold till a later date.

A good night sleep???

2008-07-10T18:47:00.001+08:00

She says: AT was saying I can finally have a good night sleep liao (No la. Its not true. I still wake up at night to pee though I got SERIOUSLY limit my fluid intake after 6pm). But I do can have a rest of my mind cos we finally found a confinement lady for me! Hopefully she dun run away with our deposit though.

So long never update our preparation for the arrival of our princess liao. I think we have more or less bought 80% of the stuff liao. Since last mth there was sales at some chain kids' departmental stores. We brought a baby cot and scheduled to be delivered next weekend! Many will think so fast buy and somemore deliver to our hse meh?? Well, we oso think so and it will collect dust and occupy space. But maybe the sales lady wanna clear space at warehouse or wat but she say sometimes when u wanna buy then this model happen to be out of stock or wat. Besides, new furniture will have this wood smell. So need to air it and let it smell more natural. Anyway, its good to have one less item to worry about also la ...

Yeah! We are going for a short trip this weekend!! AT desperately need a break from his work and once princess is born, it may be quite a while until we have the time again.

Happy 2nd Wedding Anniversary!!!

2008-06-25T22:47:00.002+08:00

She says: Today is Daddy n Mummy's wedding anniversary. Strictly speaking, we dun consider as a family of 3 just yet but it will be when we celebrate our ROM anniversary this year! Daddy send a bouquet of pink flowers to mummy's office today. It was a pleasant surprise and the flowers are as beautiful as u! Mummy's eyes were filled with tears after reading the card. Daddy says u wants to thank me for the suffering I have been thru to bring u to this world. Are u ready to come to this world?? To face life, school work and then work in future? This world is even more beautiful with u around ... Can't wait to see u! Mummy is excited with the clothings that we have bought for u today!

It's a princess!!

2008-06-24T22:07:00.002+08:00

She says: It has been confirmed that it's a princess!! AT n I are so happy! AT says he need someone to do the hsework. -_-"'For me, I can doll her up wif pretty n cute dresses! And one more good news is we found princess a good n reliable nanny. At least we FEEL she's good la. Princess shld be safe in her hands. This nanny seems to be more commited and doesn't mind if we bring her too early to her house or come late to fetch princess home. And her house is spacious n windy n most importantly clean! Hahaha. Mummy likes cleaniness mah. Oh ya. The only bad point is she stay kinda far. I might face difficulty to bring princess back when it rains n etc. But not a big issue as AT says 80% of the time, he shld be able to fetch her back. Besides, the nanny oso mention its ok if we delay to bring her back.

Ok! The next task is look for confinement lady. Wow! Nowadays confinement lady job pays very well leh. If she were to stay in our hse overnight, her pay is around 1.8 - 2k leh. Its like giving her ur that mth pay lo. Though the company is paying u though u r not working in office la. But still couldnt help but to feel heartache. Lucky u only need confinement lady for that first mth after u give birth.

Hmmm ... An update of Princess's pressie. We bot a non-slip bathtub for her but it's in blue. Ok la. Mummy's fav color is blue mah and they only sell blue color. PINK cot bumper, baby bath towel with hoop, baby changing mat and a "baby gym"!! I like this baby gym and this shld considered as Princess's first toy. She can lie on the soft mat with stuffed toys hanging at the top. She can plays and kicks the toys. In a way like doing "gym" la. Sound FUN right? hahahaha ...

Wow! Now can see Princess kicks from my tummy liao. She gets real excited whether let her listens to classical music. 2 possiblities. Either she starts to dance ballet or she hates the music like what ah yi says. TOo bad. Daddy says got to let u listen no matter u like anot. Must learn to be a refined gal mah ...

Haiz ... Mummy is having headache again. I decided to indulge myself wif half cup of 3-in-1 coffee this morning. I hope it's not very lethal to ur health. I woke up a few times last night. When daddy came to the room to slp and ard 2plus am to pee. Tink I shld really consider limit fluid intake after 6pm. Maybe less urine in my bladder n i wont wake up to pee every night. *pout*

Shopping for Baby!!!

2008-06-09T18:14:00.002+08:00

She says: Approaching 19 weeks, I can feel more n more bb movement and kicks. Last week facial session was a big torture for me. At first bb jus give me a few kicks. Later bb starts to move ard and it makes me feel real uncomfortable. I was thinking maybe bb really doesn't like me to lie on my back as the water bag has less space now??? Or bb can feel my pain while the beautician squeeze the hell out of my face?? Finally, bb got tired n seems to have fallen asleep. But my discomfort changed to pain in my back. After my beautician puts on the mask n left the room, I immediately groan in pain. I tried shifting my position until the pain gets better and finally settled down on my right. Then I finally fell asleep ... The book that I am reading actually states that due to hormones change, skin might be very lousy. So no point gg to facial during this period unless u feels relax n de-stress. OH DEAR! With the response from bb, I wonder if this is call relaxation when I go facial leh.

Yday we went motherhood exhibition at expo. We wanted to start our bb shopping with some big items first. But we couldn't decide which cot to buy or shld we get playpen or cot. Cos AT finds a cot looks boring. A playpen looks more happy. Hahaha. Stroller n car seat is another big headache. Cos AT did a 'site survery' at the pple who were at the exhibtion n found a few brands that were quite popular among parents. Wow! But these brands are so expensive!! Then I commented maybe stroller can wait cos initial months u shld be hugging the newborn in ur arms wat. In the end, we went hm with many packs of diapers in different sizes and brands, portable fridge, bean spout pillow cover (cos the pillow out of stock) and lots of brochures. Ok la .. At least we learnt quite alot yday and had abit of market research =D

It's a gal??

2008-05-23T22:57:00.004+08:00

She says: We brought forward my 17th week appt to yday as I developed rashes all over my tummy. AT got worried cos the other day when we went to see a GP, his diagnose was its quite uncommon to have rashes on the tummy. So recommended if after taking the anti-itch tablet for one day n the rashes nvr clear, I shld go n see A&E. But after surveying EX-preg frens, we suspected maybe I am allergic to the stretch mark cream. True enough, when I told Dr Adrian abt my rashes, he immediately ask me if I used XXX brand of stretch mark cream. He say everybody use oso got rashes so stop using. Whether u apply stretch mark cream anot, u still have stretch marks. It depends on god's will actually. Some pple have some dun. So I jus have to resign to my fate then.

OH YA! Dr Adrian scanned between bb's legs n suspect IT'S A GIRL! But not confirm yet so I shall nt spread the news yet. Me, this mummy hor ... very weird. When i instinct that I am carrying a boy, I was abit upset. Cos cant buy cute, pinky dress to doll bb up mah. When when gynae says its a gal, I oso feel upset. hahaha. Dunno y. Maybe prove that my instinct is wrong?

Pout. My next appt is 4 weeks later. Have to wait till so long before I can see bb again =(

15 Weeks le!!

2008-05-16T20:44:00.005+08:00

She says: Whahaha! I think this blog has become "annually" thing liao. I guess that's the difference between having internet access at work or not and working 5 n half working week or not. Anyway, I think I have become someone who doesn't need internet. I hav not been surfing for ages. If not for bill payment or funds transfer, I guess I wont online man!

I am in my 15 weeks now. It was regret that I couldnt blog at the very start. But its never too late to start now! In fact, mummy sandra only start to blog during her final trimester. I am one trimester earlier than her !!!

First trimester was all about vomiting and nauseous and poor appetite. I heard 2nd trimeter is honeymoon period for most mummies. Well ... Doesn't really applies to me tat much but indeed feeling better. No more vomiting (Cross fingers) but still abit nauseous. But at least my appetite is getting better. Finally can feel hungry most of the times. But I still wakes up in the middle of the night everyday. Last week, I complained to my gynae abt having headaches everyday. He asked if I have been sleeping well. I told him I woke up everyday at night lo. He replied to pee?? How many times? But didnt exactly explains y. Jus ask me to take panadol n mc to rest at hm. Haiz ... Got to save MC for more URGENT case so thats out of question lo.

This week is better. Less headches but I still wake up. My own explanation is bb doesnt like me to stick to one sleeping position n wake me up to make some turn??? Or my bradder is abit full n press on the water bag n he/she doesn't have enuff space to move ard?? Who will actually be awake at this wee hours??? Do u noe that u r making mummy very tired at work??? Be good ok.

Hey! I jus sms-ed Agnes n Anitha to inform them of the good news. Actually Anitha is into her 23rd weeks! So happy leh. Next time we can discuss abt PSLE cos we have babies born on the same year!! She told me that I can feel bb move in 16th week and she know the gender of her bb in 17 weeks. WOW! I am full of anticipation man!!

New job, new life

2006-12-05T21:32:00.000+08:00

She says: To be exact, today is my 3rd day at new work place. First day together with 15 other pple, we had our orientation. Went for hearing test (tested my ears are working fine) and jus sit there n listen to briefing after briefing. I was rather shock n pissed by the rules and regulation here. I shall not elaborate further to protect the name of the company. Jus when I was wondering y would pple wan to work in such place then they mention their attractive bonus payout. Me too. The bonus is my ONLY motivation to work in this place (actually really wanted to use the word 'hell'). But I got a few surprises at office. The person sitting behind me is my pri sch fren sister! Yeah! At least got someone that I know here. And was surprised to see my new PC and 19" LCD monitor. Really nice to new staff huh?!!

2nd day was a Sat so we worked half a day. Yes! Its 5 and a half working week here. I wiped my desk, installed sw and a colleague came over to brief me on a big system. I start to panic if I can really manage such a big system by myself. I so afraid with the number of yrs working experience, they expected me to be someone that is worth the price they paying for. Anxiety ...

3rd day. Spent my time looking at code and day dream while looking at the monitor of cos! And I going to master the skill of 'sleeping' with my eyes open. Amazing right? Time really hard to pass. In the afternoon, my boss brief me and another new guy abt the big system. I wonder izzit becos I keep asking qns until the boss turned to me and said "Florance, take things one step at a time. Here is not as pressurized as outside so u can relax abit. I cannot work when there is pressure." Steady lo! If he never ask colleague to brief me on the big system, would I be so panicky? And he also say the pple here wan to see us working so we have to OT ONCE in a while. Wat can I say?

The world don't have non-dismissable banquet

2006-11-08T17:32:00.000+08:00

She says: Today I had my farewell lunch at Parkway Thai restaurant. After spending 64mths here, I FINALLY got the chance to be the 'zhu jiao' and kanna treat. But the bill wasn't 'BIG' enuff to revenge the money I spent treating ex-colleagues. Wahhaa ....

Before we went for the lunch, we were still cracking our brains and be prepared to answer questions like - 1. "You 2 going to the same company?" 2. Which company u going to?" 3. "Why never wait for 13th mth?" .... Fortunately, no one asked these sensitive qns during lunch. But the poor Jiayan's new co offer was leak out! She was damn pissed lo. Only 2 person other then us knew abt the offer so if it's not us then ...

After feasting like continuously for the whole entire week, we decided that we need to exercise. We played our first and last badmintion game since our office moved to 'Jeju island'. The sport hall is jus right there at our office! It was a good game. Make us wan to play it again on Fri but i need to rush to harbourfront so it's not possible :(

Our last precious week together as '3 flowers'
Monday - We ate Coffee Bean breakfast
Tuesday - Delifrance lunch that cost us $14 each!
Wednesday - Farewell lunch
Thursday - Melben Seafood at AMK. Private farewell dinner plus Min's bday plus ex-colleagues gathering
Friday - Meridien foodcourt korean food or Parkway foodcourt laksa

I FINALLY leaving!!

2006-11-01T17:59:00.000+08:00

She says: I signed the letter this morning! It has been offical that I am FINALLY leaving a place where I spent half a decade with. Seems pretty long to most people. Experiencing mixed feelings. Happy, worried, scare ... But I dunno how many percentage for which feeling ...

My last day is on 10th Nov. I got a shock when they told me I have 10days of leave to clear. Everything seems to happen too fast for me to react. Dun even have enuff time to organise a few session of farewell lunch. Let's make it everybody come for ONE particular day ba!

Tmr tution is FINALLY the last one. HAPPY sia! Finally get to go home OTD after work ever since I moved to CCK. But I gg to miss the kids especially YL. I have been hinting that I may not be teaching them next yr. He said he wan me to teach cos among all others teachers he has, I gave the least homework. Well, if that's the case ...

Gonna hav almost 3 weeks of rest. OMG! I dunno wat I going to do man! Though this rest is something that I have been dreaming of. But boredom is something that I hates! But seems like timing is abit wrong. My sis cant take off in Nov and AT dun have much leave. Need to be 100% focus for at least for half a yr at the new place so need to go vacation while clearing leave mah. How I wish I can go taiwan to visit my kids. But no one accompany me leh ... Never tried travelling alone. Dun tink I wanna try too!

My Busy Life.

2006-10-31T00:26:00.000+08:00

He says: Hi guys and girl. There is always a long period where i will start to forget to post entries in the Blog haha.. Well hope that the period is over. Realli have been long. But no worries. Will start to write Blog again since my 2nd Pc is up and running again.

2006-09-06T10:13:00.000+08:00

She says: I hate to take train to work. ReasonS being simple. There are simply too many ugly figures on train. We can have pple still INSIST to cross their legs on a super pack train where there is ald hardly any place for humans to stand. We can have tons of pple standing near the door area n blocking my way to walk in the centre of cabin to read my book. This morning I can have one 'fat' guy blocking my way to walk further in and he still got the nerve to leave his bk on my shoulder while reading. Why still insist to read his damn bloody BIG bk when there is really not much space on train? How much can he read on such a short train trip? BEST! I can even have guys snatching seats from me when I am having cramps and backache. The world is so ugly. Taking bus wasn't that bad cos I can close my eyes and slp my way throughout the trip and dun bother abt such pple ard. I shall insist AT to fetch me to work everyday. He is the one who say 'without me, there is no her'. BTW, today is the day she FINALLY arrives!!

2006-09-04T16:56:00.000+08:00

She says: Yupz! I am finally back at work. After taking one week of sick leave. If u guys read my prev post, I hope to take one wk leave and stone at hm right? I guess my wishes has been answered then. It was a good rest. Watching tv at hm during afternoon was quite shiok. Except that it can be quite irritating to hear children repeating what the teacher is teaching and singing birthday song cos opposite block is a kindergarden and which floor I am staying.

But falling sick is terrible. Couldn't rem how many times I vomitted and diarrhoea. And the lost of appetite to eat anything. Could be a blessing in disguise cos i lost 2kgs. I am slimmer than my wedding day. My colleagues commented I look so thinner this morning. The best thing is I have been asked the Nth times whether I am preggie anot. Nope! Not this time!

Had a happy shopping trip last weekend. Though I am still running fever but nothing can stop 'Shopping Queenie'. AT was busying helping his mum at the stall so I have unlimited hours to shop to my fill!

Shld be expecting to see our 4-wheels this week. I hope the agent wont disappoint my dear AT. We have so much to do with our very first 4-wheels man! Hmmm ... Will go down buy it's perfume later.

2006-08-15T11:29:00.000+08:00

She says: "Group 2 winning tickets sold at: 4. NTUC FP - Singapore Post Centre - 10 Eunos Rd 8 #B2-13 (1 QuickPick Ordinary Entry) Group 2 Share Amount (each) $55,588 No. of Winning Shares 23"

When my colleague told me that my office downstairs was one of the winning location, I tot it was me leh. Unfortunately, my numbers were too far from the winning ones. Disappointed. Else I would be 55k richer. Else I can quit my job and stop working for 2yrs. Else can rest at hm and get pregnant. Anyway, time to face the reality and start on my work ...

2006-08-14T11:21:00.000+08:00

She says: It's going to be 11am on a Monday morning and I havent start doing my work yet. It's nothing to be surprised of actually. Even the weather now reflects my gloomy mood. This morning I suddenly have this thoughts of taking one week's leave. Jus doing nothing at home. Jus 2 days rest during the weekends are simply not enuff. But we JOs have so little number of days of leave so got be thrifty and save save save! The next public holiday is in Oct. What a long wait ...

I have got an ALMOST comfy ride on a cab to work today except that the cab was abit too cold for me. The cab smell nice as well. Quite sad that nowadays quite few of them tried to keep their car smell nice for the passengers. Got a few times I have to hold on my breath throughout the trip cos the smell was REALLY unbearable. I tot I could have vomit anytime. Think I am waiting as anxiously as AT for our 4-wheels. Hope it can make it on time for my bday. Queen Florance don't wan to waste her time at the taxi stand anymore ...

I just left a dark, black scar on my left hand. *sob sob* Was mutlitasking by ironing the clothes while watching tv and for tat moment I din notice and put the HOT iron on my hand. The first instance I tot the burn wasn't that bad cos its din swell mah until as I continue wif the ironing, I could feel its getting more and more painful. I tried to put the wound on running water and apply oniment I jus bot a few days ago nia but the end product was dark patch there. Hope the 'scar' will go away. I dun need anything to remind myself that I am a housewife now ...

AT sold his K800i yday. We can no longer do video call liao. *pout* But we seldom video call too. In fact we seldom call each other at work. For me, one of the main reason is when the big bosses sees me at my desk and not in the testing rm, they would tot I am very free. So I dunno what they going to say if they sees me on the phone. And whenever I calls AT, its always not the right time :(

I watched 'Click!' yday too. It is comedy yet I sob terribly in the cinema. It makes us human realised that we usually take things for granted and used 'busy' as our excuses to spend quality time with our family and friends and even my hubby. How I wish I have more spare time to visit my grandmother. But I really very tied up holding roles as a programmer during the day, a tutor in the night and housewife during the weekends! I dun even have time to flip the newspaper. I left 2 Saturdays papers unread at the coffee table. Life's sucks!

P.S I jus added wishlist for our hse. AT can add his column for his 'new wife' accessories.

2006-08-10T16:08:00.000+08:00

She say: No doubt today is Thursday but I feel so Monday today! ARGH! I recalled I wasn't feeling so bad last Mon maybe cos I was anticipating the NDP on Wed. So much work on hand but little mood to do. Trying to pretend and ignore the words like 'Urgent' or 'ASAP' on my specs. And the worse thing is I got to go tuition for today, tmr and Sunday. Sianz leh. 'Shou ren qian cai, ti ren xiao zhai' mah. Ald got my advanced pay cannot say dun go liao.

The thing that I can look fwd is the lunar 7th mth dinner this Sat. Greedy gal! Oh no. I recv a terrible news this morning. I have put on weight again. Its so difficult to go back to fruits diet ever since I start to eat 'real' food.

The NDP yday was good. Especially the fireworks part. But somehow I still feel that it was not enuff. However the formation part of the show nearly bored me to death though I understand tat the effort and the amount of pple involved was magnificent. Maybe they shld do something regarding this part. Really pity and appreciate the number of weekends and off days they burnt to put up this show.

Going hm part is always disastrous and problemtic one. The 6 of us walked to suntec for dinner and hopefully better way to go hm. By the time we reached Suntec, its ald 9.30pm liao lor. Take into consideration that the event ended at 8pm. Can u see the amt of time we actually exercised?

Hey hey hey! AT and I each bot a life cum accident insurance on Tue. The lucky agent is no other than our good friend, Bernard Lim! We were all ready to buy insurance so it din take him tat long to 'brain-wash' us to put our signatures down. But I think he left our hse almost 2am cos most of the time we busy talking cork ba. Haha ... Now I feel my life is 'worthy' liao. At least we will have money when we retired. At least my family will get something if anything happen *touchwood* of cos!

2006-08-08T10:43:00.000+08:00

She says: Today is the eve of Singapore's bday! Since morning, once I tune to the radio, they have been playing national songs lo. Suddenly feel this yr super National Day mood lor. I finally managed to exchange my tix to green sector so that I can sit wif my sis! My students shld be the happier ones. Today no lessons and they spend their day in sch celebrating National Day. And they get extra one day off on Thurs. This week they only study 2 days lo. So good life ...

Today I left my hse for work ard 8.10am cos AT say i can take cab to work. I was horrified to see 'thousands' of pple waiting for cab. Where got my chance man! I got panic cos if i were to take MRT to work I going to reach almost 9.30am leh! So I took bus to the MRT and lucky a few cabs were waiting at the taxi stand. Phew! Lucky no jams as well but kanna $1.50 ERP. Sianz ...

Even AT has no work to do today. I jus called to wake him up ard 10am. He is going back office to collect his Atom today. Great strategy to buy a 3G phone instead of XDA else his new XDA need to slp at home and collect dust liao ...

I suspect my left bottom wisdom tooth is coming out or something. My gums have been feeling sore and painful. Yday was worse. Headache the whole day. But I touch the empty slot behind the last tooth, seems like nothing gonna happen leh. I just got my fexi benefits last mth, by right can spend on dentist visit lah. But I ald spent on my fav past time liao. Let's monitor my condition for the time being then. Maybe I am jus heaty ...

2006-08-04T15:43:00.000+08:00

She says: Yeah yeah! (With a victory sign again) I am going to night safari tonite for FREE! My 'not-so-close' fren, Dennis got a free pair of tix from his company so I first person to chop the other tix! But got to pay 50% for dear's tix ... Anyway we ald saved one tix price liao wat!

It has been 10 whole yrs since I last went to night safari. I rem we went to the ZOO last yr cos my co. got free entry pass. Zoo was good so i guess night safari shld be better! So excited.

AND ... I am going to watch 'live' of Superband finals tmr! I have been a great supporter of 'milubing' all the way from the first time I saw them at the audition. How they make me took notice of their grp is thru their crappy nick. *pengz* But the setback is the audience gonna stand. I know like tat then happening lah but I old ald cannot stand for long. Will have backaches ...

PS. I am STILL looking forward to the NDP next week! WOW!

Jus now my colleague was commenting we must live and enjoy our life to the fullest and I seems to be doing it well. Haha. I never intro them to this blog so they dunno I DO have low morale times but I admit I live my life like today is the last! Hurray!

2006-08-03T17:29:00.000+08:00

She says: Today is ChinChin's bday! If I am not wrong he shld be 3 yrs old today. Wont be gg hm to celebrate wif him cos of my 'after work' commitments. But I hope his 'bday wishes' will come true! Good luck and ah za ah za fighting!

45 mins to knocking off. Feeling hungry liao. Planned to go down have dinner one but 2 of the bosses are having tea break so its not nice to bump into them. So i wait lor ... Got a busy day today. And I still have those irritating vendors who couldn't stop pestering me. I was smart enuff not to give them my namecard man! But my boss passed them my email to keep me in the loop mah. Nowadays sales reps are so aggressive. Dont they realise that they are actually giving negative impression to customers?

Today is the first time after so many yrs, I feel tat my blouse and pants are gg to explode anytime. I REALLY hope its becos they r brand new and first time wearing it is like tat one ... Tink i need to lose weight *pout*

2006-08-02T17:49:00.000+08:00

She says: I came back from a 2D1N chalet at downtown east. Abit short so not much activities. But we still managed to BBQ wif 4+1 persons! We slept abt 1am and becos my dear sacrifice his pillow so I got both pillow n bolster. I got a gd nite slp last nite ... Thank u dear ... U scored 200 points for this!

Seriously I tink I shld not be talkin abt the chalet cos I suppose to be resting at hm as I am on sick leave mah. Got ear infection for 2 days le. Affecting abit of my hearing when I am already a BIG 'chao ki lang' on normal days le. Hope it gets well soon cos I cant slp on my fav left side *pout*

Today I came to office with anticipation tats y I dun feel blue blue de ... I have got 2 registered articles on my desk! Haha. This is of cos something personal items lah. Hehe. Been shopping online recently and got the sellers to sell RA to my office addy so that someone would be ard to sign for the items. But abit pai sei lah. My clerk has to go down to the reception to sign for it. I tot they would contact me straight though I was not in office yday.

The blouse I bot was a disappointing one. The color wasn't right and the inner piece was strained. Kaoz! This kind of product also dare to send me. Not scare of me making a big fuss online huh? Anyway, got my fren to complain to the seller and see wat she can do for me. Another BIG RA is my African spa salt scrub and Jack Jack ring cushion. Both brand new of cos. I always request for 'new piece' when i shop! So excited to do scrub today. If I not tired today ...

But on and off I have been feeling upset abt my iPod. Its not in my bag and I cant recall I saw it lying ard in the hse. Worried that I have lost it. One n a half yr of gan qing le. AT still excitedly say tat I can buy new music player liao. I know lah. He looking for my bday pressie mah. But I still a iPod supporter though they dun have radio cos I ald hav a 'powderful' HP wif radio function wat. Hehe. Havent intro my new phone K800i. The specs need not say more right?

I ate cavana chix rice today but I shared wif my colleague. Tink I have lost all the discipline and motivation to diet ...

2006-07-24T16:11:00.000+08:00

She says: Aiya! Enuff of these less happening stuff liao lah! Yeah! (With a victory sign) I am going to watch NDP on 9th Aug 'LIVE' from the National Stadium. After sending numerous IC nos to ballot for the tickets, we got NONE lor. But AT's sis gave us a pair maybe as a form of gratitute for repairing her PC. Now praying hard for my sis to get the tix as well so tat we can wear the red korea jersey to Singapore's NDP!!!

The next happening thing must be owning our own's 4 wheels. That shld be the 2nd most ex stuff we bought. The first is the lovenest rem? Was hoping from then onwards I got transport to office w/o squeezing the super pack trains and got to stand all the way to Tanjiong Pagar b4 I get a seats. Even posing as a pregnant woman doesn't help. Hahaha. No la! Was wearing loose dress to work today so I tot I look preggie.

Then sept is my bday. But I guess its not wise to depend on my always plan-less and least creative hubby to do something. Was trying to plan my own bday celebration. He jus in-charge of the bills will do! :p

Tomorrow marks one mth since our wedding ... Do I get flowers? Wahahaha. Jus kidding dear ...

2006-07-24T16:09:00.000+08:00

She says: Yupz! Its Monday again. No doubt I am suffering from Monday's blues today. It simply makes me more upset to know tat one of '4 flowers' is on leave. Tmr my sis is off. She jio-ed me to take off too but does tat mean more shopping? Oh no! Last weekend, I jus did something guilty so I got to 'try' to refrain from shopping for at least a few weeks?? Hehehe ... A mth is too cruel to me lah ...

Was flipping thru the Sat newspaper yday. Not Life!, Home, Classified, Prime, Finance section etc but u guys noe which section lah. Before tat I was ald feeling very low morale liao but after flipping thru, I felt worse. I felt tat I could not keep up wif the technology at all. Not enuff exposure and I guess I have been locked in a well for too long. Moving on seems difficult for me as I recalled how I was 'trashed' during interviews one yr ago. That was the last thing that I want to go thru again but I think I could have 'die' more ugly here.

I tot I could have come back from the korea trip with my battery fully charged and ready to start my new life. But I felt otherwise. I have lost the target of life. I felt I jus live my life aimlessly and waiting for time to pass. Thats y I refused to blog though I shld be consider 'free'. Jus dun feel like doing anything. Thinking of holidays everyday ...

Back to reality

2006-07-22T23:30:00.000+08:00

He says: Hi guys, think it's time we drop from cloud 9 back to the cruel earth that we are born in....been a long time since there is any news from the both of us haha. Both of us are jus lazy to blog something in here. No determination at all. haha.

Back from our honeymoon since long. Korea is quite a nice place to go, jus not used to the food, everyday also kimchi and teppanyaki. Bored after the 2nd day haha. Should have went there during the winter period, ard Jan. Then we can go and ski at mount Sorak. Too bad. but there are ppl who says that it's to cold to be there during winter. -20degree. Think can't even bath properly. Maybe not a good idea to go during that period after all.

Lots and lots of things have happened, but the both of us are still quite the same. We have moved into our love nest in yew tee. Everything been great for mi so far, but my poor wife have to do alot more housework then before. Poor thing and I have not realli been of great help. As long as i dun give her more problem I think she will be more then happi.

Think this is more then a blog about our marriage. We should use this blog to let ppl know how are we doing after our big day. Maybe we should try to add in more details.

I wonder if it's a good piece of news.
Finally I'm entitled to own my wheels. Been dreaming of that day in day out hehe. Finally my dream come true. But realli hope I will be able to afford it after collecting the keys.

Wish mi luck guys.

Still got lots of studd to says. But due to my short term memory, maybe my dear wife would like to add more stuffs in later once she is free. Stay tune guys.

2006-06-22T17:42:00.000+08:00

Yeah! Our honeymoon is FINALLY confirmed! And we are gg to my fav drama serial filming place - Korea! Ha na ha say yo! Super excited man! I have been wanting to go korea since years ago but due to budget constraits, we often chose another place for vacation instead. The sad part is I burn a super big hole from my pockets. In fact, its 'All In' lor. But I still looking forward to the trip lah. Who won't right? Enjoy first, think later. Hahaha. Hopefully, we wont lose ALOT of money from the banquet. So anyone out there who is reading this entry and are coming this sunday ... 'auto' abit hor. Hahhaa .. The funniest thing is I have been using this word RSVP and a colleague told me that it could mean "Please Send Valuable Present". Oops!

Anyway, 3days from Actual Day. I hope our parents will stop 'chu' pattern cos we ald have lots of stuff to get bz with. Yday jus bomb us wif traditional stuff to buy and make us run ard spore searching like tat. Haiz ... No wonder pple say "Marriage is once in a lifetime thing". Now i understand y pple only do it once. Whahahaha ...

2006-06-19T16:29:00.000+08:00

She says: This sunday is THE DAY. 6 days to go but we seems to have 100 to the power of n (n denotes infinity in our Mathematics remember?) stuff to do. Haven't been taking good care of ourselves. I have bruises and cuts all over the body. My nails chipped and I wonder if pedicure and manicure can cover everythinng. Haven't been going to facial. Haven't been sleeping enuff party cos of the WC. Haven't been going to dentist to at least polish out teeth. AT has been coughing and I have a ulcer on the throat area where i mistaken as 'sore throat'.

Anyway, jus push aside these troublesome stuff. My sis bought me a purple gold ring from Lee Hwa yday! I love the ring but minus all the various discount and points redemption, she still need to fork up lots of money. Kinda guilty cos I couldn't have chosen a cheaper ring mah ... Anyway, as a form of 'gratitude', I shall be offer her to come my hse to stay anytime she wants!

Time is running out.

2006-05-24T22:52:00.000+08:00

He says: Wow.....time is running out for us....
I'm starting to panick already, out of the list of things that Darlin stated

1. Buy wines
2. RSVP and mail out the cards. Most tedious part. In fact, cards not ready yet.
3. Choose photos for photo montage. (Done)
4. Choose songs for montage and highlights. (Done)
5. Collect album n photos from BS. (Done)
6. Choose tea dress
7. An chuang
8. Guo Da Li
9. Buy wedding stuff like table lamp and tea sets
10. Food tasing (Done!)

There is realli alot of stuff we haven't complete. Headache headache.
The most headache is the guest list among other stuff.

After calculating I found that I'm short of table to invite my poly friends due to my miscalculation. Hai... Now I'm realli in a bad spot :(

My dad needed 3 tables to invite the Elders which we did not discuss previously. So now everything is in quite a mess. Well but since it's a happy occassion, i decide to let things take it course. No point getting frustated over it.

And there is oso other tonnes of things to do. Let jus try to settle one thing at a time.

Let's jus hope everything will turn out fine.

Best of Luck~!

2006-05-15T12:19:00.000+08:00

She says: Less than 6weeks to AD. Let me see what is undone yet.
1. Buy wines
2. RSVP and mail out the cards. Most tedious part. In fact, cards not ready yet.
3. Choose photos for photo montage.
4. Choose songs for montage and highlights.
5. Collect album n photos from BS.
6. Choose tea dress
7. An chuang
8. Guo Da Li
9. Buy wedding stuff like table lamp and tea sets
10. Food tasing (Going to complete by today!)
And the list goes on ...

The long weekend passed just like tat. But at least some of the wedding preparation was done. We went to expo on sat and visit the 3 exhibitions there. We went lifestyle 21 to buy our bed and curtains, harvey norman explosive sales for our DVD home theatre system and metro sales for AT's wedding shoes and bedsheet. Think we spend abt 2k and AT was saying my bonus gotta be fat tis yr. I hope so too. Still waiting for the memo from HR ... I heard they will be sending memo today. Waiting ... Still waiting ...

2006-05-04T16:35:00.000+08:00

she says: Tue nite I 'abandon' my students to go buy 'si dian jin' with AT's parents. I would say they r quite generous. I was so surprised to noe that their budget was 2k!! At first I was still worrying they would act blur on this but i guess my worries are too 'extra' liao. But they did argued wif AT on who is going to buy the 'si dian jin'. They insisted that AT shld be the one buying but he say he dun have 'budget' on this. Wow! I beginning to feel excited for the day to come where I can 'officially' own them leh. Hehehe ... Will be getting a few more pieces from my parents of cos, my 'niao' bro and my dearest ah nei! I think special thanks to the progess package whereby everybody got the extra cash to 'progress' and 'proceed' ...

Today I finally instructed the printers to start printing our cards. Need 10 working days leh. Abit worried that we are running out of time for our wedding preparation. Think we have been 'floating' too much and were quite slack on the preparation. Anyway, I also confirm my order for the beautiful wrist corsages. Still pondering whether to buy or DIY my ang bao box. AT is the type of person tat like to use cash to solve problem one but I still tink the price quoted seems abit pricey leh ... This sat is Polling Day and was declared as a public holiday. I doubt the wine supplier will open for business right?? Haiz ... Gonna drag the wine issue for another wk again.

2006-04-26T17:53:00.000+08:00

She says: After much anticipation and enthusiasm, we finally cook our first meal at home. Ended up we cooked too much and there is so much leftover *puke*. The worst part is the cleaning up after all the cooking. The whole hse is damn oily and smelly after all the stupid 'deep frying'. Lucky we spilt up the cleaning work so not so xiong for me. After cleaning n showering, its ald 11plus liao ... Super tired lor .. Stupid try!

Anyway, I dunno wat happen but monday morning my right eye was swollen! I was described as 'happily' declared "I can wan take MC today!" Well, I have been a good gal leh. Have not been taking sick leave since last yr. So abt 4mths leh. Hahaha ...

Its feel so good tat I have the whole day off w/o gg to office. But by the time i finish seeing the doc, ald 10.30 liao ... After breakfast n watch a few episodes of 'Bleach', almost 12pm liao. After napping less than 2 hrs, need to wake up and go for tuition. I was late somemore. Dragging myself to my kids hse wif eyes half open like tat.

But at least I managed to do something 'happening' in the evening time. AT n I went to WL to view the layout of our portait and 2 pages of our album. Yeah! We can collect the album 3 weeks from now! At least establish something constructive huh? And I managed to watch 'live' of superband competition ... from tv lah. Normally got to wait till sat to watch repeat mah ...

And AT finally 'squeeze' out his guest list liao. Need to estimate if 200 cards are enuff anot. Finally can tell the printers to print the cards liao! Has been dragging tis thing so long le. Decided on the food tasting date and menu too!

2006-04-21T14:53:00.000+08:00

She says: My turn to have bad dreams last nite. I dreamt it was my wedding day. I vividly remember AT arrived at my hse when everything including the bride was not ready yet. We left the door un-closed and I was jus there at the door when AT came. I tot the groom n the bride not suppose to see each other before he successfully 'break thru' the gate mah. I shld be in the rm 'hiding' mah. And he was like caught me in an unprepared mode like tat. Nevermind abt that. The worst part was the makeup artist forgot to bring my veil. That shld be quite a impt thing right? Bo bian lor. We decided to 'DIY'. We used the 'netting' that was previously used to wrap flowers from AT! So cham leh! As a 'prefectionist', how can I torture such a cork up on the most impt day of my life!

Sigh ... From young, I always think dreams are the opposite of the reality. Maybe I am getting abit nervous abt the wedding ... Maybe its just a normal kind of stress that most brides experience ...

It's going to be a 5 working days week again

2006-04-17T16:12:00.000+08:00

She says: Wow! How time flies! Its a brand new Monday again. I only rem last Mon was Lala's bday but eventually she din have any celebration this yr. Jus got a bitting stone from me. Somemore I got it from the storerm one. Sorry!! Definitely will get her a belated pressie ...

Super blues today. My eyes could hardly open to it's 'standard' size today and I regretted wearing contact lens to work. Serve me right for watching tv till 2am last nite :p

My long weekend passed jus like tat. Without doing anything 'constructive'. My sis spend the long weekend at rendang but 30-40% of the trip is spent on the coach. Tats the reason y i havent visit tat place yet though I have been thinking abt it whenever i need a short breaks.

However, my coffee table FINALLY is here!! After much delays from the furniture shop. Really puts me off though I am considering to buy our bed from them. Bad service and no further disc one. If they free me pillows and such will make me feel so much better mah ...

And, we did i first cooking at my new hse! Not really cooking lah but jus boiling and heating up of food. Originally, I planned to cook right on the first day of the gas activation but due to 'unforseen circumtances', we ate at AT's mum stall instead. Kinda dampen my mood but I cooking is a tiring job. Imagine u got to clean up after the meal and before that u r ald tired after doing all the hsehold stuff le. (Tink I can give up hope tat AT's is going to help me wif the cleaning)

Tink i sound like a typical housewife now. My colleagues spent their weekend watching new anime - bleach. While I cant even afford the time to watch one episode. There is simply endless things to do at home!!

2 months, 1 week and 1 day to our BIG day. Tink I am giving up on the wedding cross snitch that was meant for our wedding. Still got ang bao box and probably wrist corsages to construct. Sigh ...

2006-04-06T16:12:00.000+08:00

She says: Yup! I finished watching 'Goong' aka Princess hours last sat. Actually consider to be Sun cos its ald 3am. Super miss the show. Feel like watching it again but like stepping on the same spot without moving forward like tat. Tat doesn't sound correct hor ...

Anyway, we had a small bbq gathering on sun at our new hse. AT gathering wif his army frens while I gathering wif SPCO pple lah. One touching thing to mention is Dennis and Mingxi bot some 'Alan & Flor essentials' like cup noodles, instant noodles, tibits n etc to our hse. Cos they heard we gg to stay there during the weekends mah ... Pple like us definitely need these. Thank you Dennis!!

Naturally, we spend the nite at our new hse of cos! I din really slept well cos we din off the aircon so it wasn't really nice to slp ... But AT said he did ...

2006-03-28T11:25:00.000+08:00

She says: Yday I din appear at my student's place. I felt so sick that I tot I would faint inside the train. Before that I was having cold sweat but I tot I shld be able to recover in half an hr time so by the time I reach AMK I shld be feeling better. But my stomach and my back pain n ache until cannot tahan so I called AT and told him I dun feel like gg. In the end I went to Jurong instead.

I felt so happy that I 'dun' have tuition yday. It has been long time tat I can watch tv on Monday. Suddenly dun feel like giving tuition anymore but I have so many constraits to think of. Money, money and money. Probably my kids as well. Tink I will miss them too. So AT ask me to tahan until May when they finish their mid-yr exams then i consider whether I wanna continue to teach after wedding.

Today another colleague on MC. Really make me feel like taking leave or MC too. But neither my sis nor AT 'free' to accompany me take tgt leh. I dun wan stay at hm alone. My granny will come to me and grumble anything under the sun. Will get on my nerves at times. I have nothing to do at hm too. Tink I re-watch 'Goong'. That's definitely a waste of leave right? But as I am listening to the soundtrack now, it certainly make me miss the show man! Tink I am 'poisoned'. Tink I am 'addicted'. Tink I am 'obsessed'. Tink I am 'possessed'. Tink I 'can't help it' anymore ... Jus like I used to have 'shopping-holic ' sickness like tat. Hehehe ...

2006-03-27T20:37:00.000+08:00

She says: Today is Monday again. Argh! Having serious Monday blues tis morning. First, I woke up late. The half-conscious me had 'happily' off the hp alarm 'un-intentionally'. Then the first sms I read for the day is one of my colleague is taking mc today. To make things worse, it was still drizzling when i woke up. Super moody today and I still have tuition tonite. Every Monday I guess I will always pop myself this qns - shld I shift Mon tuition to thurs instead? But the thought of having 'freedom' from thurs onwards made me drop off the idea.

Another thing tat make me upset is I got to postpone our thurs appt wif whitelink. Cos I have staff function on tat day. Somehow tis yr staff function doesn't really interest me tat much as prev yr. Lousy theme, lousy location and lousy prizes. (hope I never hurt anyone's by saying this) I heard the top prize is a Xbox. I have a better set at AT's hse leh. Haiz ...

Today I hav 2 'live' problem to solve but I simply no mood to look into it. Oops! Recently I simply have no mood to do any other things leh. And I have been appearing in office very late every morning. I know lah! Seriously I need to find 'myself' and buck up man!!

Wanna noe how was my weekend?? AT was busying work so I spend the 2days watching korea drama serial - Goong. Right from the moment I woke up in the morning then i watch all the way till 2-3am. Din even step out of the hse a single second man! Up to tis stage I wonder if u all understand how much I like this show but it certainly gave me 'imaginary' energy. On sunday morning, my bedrm pc suddenly unable to startup. Tink I got 'crazy' and open up the pc to take out to plug into outside pc. I am someone who never/seldom touch hardware stuff but out of 'desperation' I actually manage to do it!!

Finally I finish watching the 22 episodes and the last 2 episodes are not out yet. After this week, tink i will feel very lost again. Tink I might re-watch the whole show again. Last nite I couldnt sleep. Was thinking abt the show and I was smiling to myself to sleep ... >_<""

The natas fair and ikea sales ended yday. Becos AT was working we din do anything last weekend. Suppose to meet the AD photographer but I rather 'bi guan' and watch my show. Suppose to go our lovenest to clean up too ....

2006-03-25T21:58:00.000+08:00

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2006-03-24T16:48:00.000+08:00

She says: The reason why I am able to update the blog almost everyday is becos I am getting 'eng' in office. People always say 'there is always calm-ness before storm' so I am kinda worried abt further 'surprises' for me.

I did abit of work this morning and went for early lunch. The '4 flowers' went bugis during lunch time cos 2 of us wan to buy electric eyelashes curler but out of shock (ARGH!!) while I wan to go and buy those nice, special design 'ang bao' for the helpers on our wedding day. Its not cheap man! I feel the uncle abit like those commerical merchants who r out to earn newly wed money leh.

I jus spend my afternoon surfing net lor. Check up any updates on the multiply and did abit of search for the meaning of a potential song tat we might be using for our wedding. Then I went to learn korean online. Hehehe ... The first word i learnt today 'Taghia', which means my darling or my dear. Hehehe ... Going to use tat word on my Zhen Xian ge ...

Today is the first day I washed my hair after rebonding. Suddenly I hav another thoughts. Tink my hair look abit 'ghostly' leh. Reminds me of the korean movie - wishing stairs. But the problem is if i color my hair now, most prob I need to do touch-up for my wedding in June leh. U know ... By the time abit of black hair will come out then not nice mah. Hehehe... Perfectionist!

PS. Dear ... Today is 3mths and 1 day to our wedding leh. U getting married on 24th ah? My AD is on 25th. Different partner izzit? kekeke ...

Yeah! 10mins to knocking off ...

2006-03-24T00:09:00.000+08:00

He says: Darlin you realli look 'gong' in that hair style but it looks realli cute. I quite like it. But your face abit chubby liao. After rebonding I found out hehe. Better put in more effort. As I pen this blog down. We are onli left with 3 months to our AD. Hehe.

For mi, being fat is ok lah. The weddin photo we took already so bad liao.. haha so fat. So doesn't make a different for mi.

I think the wedding card quite normal leh in actual fact. Not like ppl 1 so Kua Zhang print photo all tat. So it's still quite ok. quite traditional.

Hey guys, I am trying to book the BBQ pit near our new house on the 2nd april. Wanna try it out Maybe u guys would be interested?

PS: Darlin, please help to ask "PS" to book ok? Thanks

2006-03-23T12:05:00.000+08:00

She says: The top 3 horoscopes who is most afraid of giving birth!

1st - Libra
The reason is scare will affect sex life. Libra very mind her own lifestyle and anything also think a lot. And they looking at a perfect relationship. Libra will scare a child will affect hubby and wife relationship thus become her fear. Although some ppl will advise her that she can overcome it, but still wont submit to it. Unless she has a lot of confidence that won't affect her life.

2nd - Scopio
It's becos Scopio love freedom and she noe that she love kids very much. So when she decided to give birth, which is the time she give up her freedom. If she haven't think carefully this point, she will consider very long to give birth

3rd - Virgo
virgo is actually in horoscope consider very suitable to become mom. Becos they do things very detailed. So taking care of child is very good and their way of taking child is very healthy unlike other moms will only have motherly love but no methods.. If their hubby ask them to give birth, they definitely will collect a lot of info abt giving birth, in order to overcome the fear of pain. However becos their fear in pain, they will drag the time of giving birth but once reached the right time, they still just follow to their fate ...

However, above statements refer to woman only. Heng ah! Imagine AT and I top 3 leh. I tink difficult to have plan 'B' liao ...

2006-03-23T12:02:00.000+08:00

She says: Yeah! I am the 'richer' one. Richer in fats or richer in knowledge?? Hahaha .. But I have become the 'poorest' after spending $143.40 on my hair yday. In the end, I got mocking from AT in return. He said must be I watching korea show 'Gung' then i look so 'gong' now. I did rebonding and cut my fringe. Its those china doll kind of image now ... Fringe straight straight across my eyebrow. I dunno how to upload photos so u guys got to imagine a little bit lah ... Anyway, my company is having Annual Staff Function next wk and the theme is 'back to school'. Checker skirt plus stupid hairstyle shld be able to win best dressed right?

Its has been 3days since I finish watching, My Lovely Samsoon. But my mind still cannot get over the show leh. Still misses the show and my Zhen Xian ge. So handsome yet will love a fat woman. So he shld be able to accept me right? Hehehe ... I have been listening to the soundtrack everyday, in office and wif my ipod when i take trains. Each time I listen, cant help to feel upset n heartache leh and will recall certain scenes of the show. Oh no! Tink I being too obsessed liao. Need to watch the new show 'gung' to cure my sickness. But I have to mention inside the show, there are some meaningful quotes abt relationship. Will share here if i managed to catch it when i re-watched it again!!

Here's an update. We went to the wedding cards printer last Thursday and saw our draft yday. I would say its quite a cute, nice and something differ card design from others. Hehehe. But my sis commented that it might look weird to print such modern design on the traditional red cards ... *pout*

2006-03-22T16:16:00.000+08:00

He says: Wow all this while my Lao Por have been filling in the blanks when I have been real busy. hehe So happy to see that she is putting in so much effort. I must say sorry to her that I didn't come in to help her put in more thoughts and comments.

Owning a flat is not easy man. Have been spending hundreds everyweek at ikeas, furniture warehouse and other places to buy those things need for our new house. Tat day alone i spent 60 plus at DIY HomeFix. I wonder if I'm still able to eat rice for lunch or could I onli afford bread from now on. Haha.

All thanks to my lao por who have realli helped to pay alot of stuffs in the flat. Lucky mi. Ya you are right, She is the richer one..hehehe

2006-03-14T17:48:00.000+08:00

She says: This is simply so ridiculous! My mum wanted to ask me if i need a ironing board for my new hse and she actually wrote a note for me on my table. That means we have not been 'able' to tok to each other for days! Firstly got to blame myself for 'disappearing' from hm during the weekends. Secondly, I reach hm ard 11pm during weekdays (not out for fun hor!) and she is already off to work. Thirdly, when i woke up in the morning, she ald sleeping cos work night shift mah ... Haiz ...

Things are like tat. U often gets excited abt new things and stuff that are not easy to get. Like me, i 'so-called' dying to go my new hse to stay liao while my colleague who jus got married, every now and then I hear her going back to 'niang jia' (her mum's hse). Not that I cant wait to leave my family lah but I jus cant stand certain pple. I wonder who finished my ice-cream leh. ARGH!!!

Anyway, jus an update. Our 'moving-in' ceremony is set on this sunday. My family FINALLY gg to my new hse to see liao. Yes! Its their first time since i bot the hse in July 05. I was wondering if its the distance or the fact that I am marrying off so far away from them that they seems simply so un-interested? Am I being too 'over-sensitive'?

2006-03-06T15:20:00.000+08:00

She says: Phew! After a tiring weekend, we finally finished cleaning our lovenest. (Ok lah. At least 80-90% done lah.) Got abit of 'helpline' from my sis on sat but majority cleaning done by jus the 2 of us. So happy to have 'quite' a dust-free home now. Its very irriating to step on dusty floor and use dirty toilet bowls leh. My hands still got tat bleach smell though and they are super dry now *pout*. We target to have a simple 'move-in' ceremony on 19th March, provided my mum no objection lah. I tink she cant bear to see her precious daughter move out. Hehehe ...

Things start to move slightly faster cos we only have 3mths plus to AD. I also pretty excited abt the new hse. Who dun wan stay at a nice hse hor? Cant wait to move my stuff over there also cos pt No. 1 - my present wardrobe is gg to explode anytime :p Of cos lah, AT gets abit nagging cos i got to get his lazy-bones to start working. No choice. Next lunar mth is 'qing ming' so its better not to do any wedding stuff in tat mth.

2006-02-28T09:20:00.000+08:00

She says: Last weekend had been lovenest building part 2 man! We woke up ard 9am to go to Harvey Norman warehse sales. We bot a washing machine, rice cooker, a stand fan and an iron. Decided to give the fridge a miss cos AT say we can move the old one from his parents' place :(

The following day, we drop by Carrefour and bot Divan and mattress at S$199!! That saves our problem of where we gg to slp if we were to stay over during the weekends.

Also, got to tok abt our photo selection on Friday. We took abt 3hrs!! We selected 62 pics altgt and tats 22pics more than wat our package entitles. But we got to take back all the photos, a montage portrait and an extra table top. Perhaps its my 'perfectionist' sickness at work, I dun tink the photos were VERY nice lah .... Not all were nice. Some ultra nice, some moderate nice, some so-so only. Some jumping pose is becos I jump until very ugly so din select. Actually I am quite confident of selecting 40pics for our album leh. But the main aim is to get back all the hard copies so topping up is inevitable :)

2006-02-24T16:49:00.000+08:00

She says: Today I went to Mayer warehouse sales. Wif my bare hands (When i say bare hands means i went alone and of cos not driving lah), I carried back 12pcs of pots set and a kettle. Tink I deserve some applause right? By the time I reached office, both of my hands are trembling liao. I cant even hold the mouse. Maybe becos I din eat lunch also. hahaha ...

But overall quite satisfy wif my 'zhan li pin' lah. Though I cant really cook but the smallest pot can be used instant noodles mah ... kekeke ...

Yeah! Finally gg to select photos liao. Earlier on the bridal shop called me to tell me the PG not free tmr leh ... Luckily I cancelled Dennis appt so I am free today! 10 mins more b4 knocking off!!

2006-02-22T12:36:00.000+08:00

She says: Finally able to take some 'breather' from work. But not really totally no work on hand lah. Dun ever think they wll be so nice to me though. Still got enhancement and production error to solve :p
My boss jus told me she threw the letter last wed. Suddenly feel so upset abt the news. Though at times her 'kapo-ness' gets into my nerves but I feel she is still a good boss lor. Dunno who going to take over the 'shit-hole' ....

Tis morning i jus complained to AT on how so low morale and no-life I have been feeling lor ... I teach tuition 4days a wk. Leaving little time for myself. But the money is there, y dun wan earn it right? In fact, Mr & Mrs Teo's goals for 2006 is to earn as much money as possible. AT has been working OTs to earn extra bucks and of cos I have to do my part mah ... But I tink I work harder leh ... Hahahaa ...

My colleagues commented tat I seems to be the most 'eng' bride in town. Seriously I have no idea wat must be done at this stage leh. Perhaps shopping for furniture ba ... But we seems to have little furnitures to buy. Jus a bed, coffee table, washing machine and basic kitchen utensils lor. Tats I can tink of for the moment.

Tis sat finally gg to choose our wedding photos. Keep my fingers cross that we dun change appt again. We waited almost 2mths since we took the photos in early Jan leh ... U see we bz until like tat. Jus abit difficult to coordinate the timing between photographer, AT and me.

Tis sat we also gg for AT's fren's solemnisation. Well, the other time he came to ours w/o present so naturally we can go to his w/o one as well right? Seriously, I dun like to be calculative lah but I was quite upset the other time mah ....

So much activities to plan for this weekend. My sis suggested gg AMK for streamboat. Our fav place. And i miss ktv and hope to play badminton wif AT. Wanna learn how to 'smack' pple cos i always kanna 'trash' one.

Hmmm ... Go and see our lovenest shld be in our agenda as well ... Need to see the progress of the renovation works!

2006-01-08T23:51:00.000+08:00

He says: Hi it have been quite a long period that I have log in to write some in this Blog haha...Lots of thing have have happen since,Quite some stuff to tell you guys out there hehe.

1. During the month of December I was realli busy in my work at Fujitsu. The whole PC replacement exercise and user moving back to the basement from branches. Wow it's realli lots of work. But that is the last month that I will be serving as a Fujitsu staff as i have tender my resignation notice on the end of Nov. I see it as a career advancement rather then escaping from Fujitsu. Partly so but it jus plays a small part. And partly due to my friend asking mi over to work.

Started working at Opus on the 4th of Jan already. Working for IBM through them doing server repair. Something that I realli like to learn. And also another step I took for my own career advancement. Hope it realli works well.

2. We have collected the keys to our Love nest finally. On the 20th of Dec. Have to ask my colleague Joseph to cover mi while I went down to collect the keys with my Darling. Rather exciting on the day. First time owning a flat. You see.... But it's on this day that our CPF becomes 0. Hehe but it's quite a great feeling lah.

We found quite alot of problems with the flat, example : wall tiles cracked, floor tiles got problem. so on and so for. Arranging with HDB now to fix those problem now.

3. I will be going for my reservist on the 11th Jan. Will be away for a whole week. Attending PS course. So sian. Luckily the course will be in PLC rather than in Tekong. Something to celebrate about hehe..Hope I can finish the whole course in one piece. So long never go chiong already ...Jia LAT ARRRR....

Most importantly, My darling have became MRS Teo on the 25th Dec 2005, Yes we have got ROM on the Xmas days itself, Our 6 anniversary together at Amara hotel. It was quite a simple affair joined by our immediate families and close friend although simple but it's a day that I will remember for the rest of my Life. Currently unable to show you more photos as my freelance photographer still have not reply my calls haha.. Dun worry, will show you guys the photo once it's REady.

I am reali fortunate to marry this beautiful and sweet lady and I will Love you forever, like what I have swear before the JP.

Even though I have broke some promises before, this I swear my Love, I will never break for the rest my Life.

I Love you and I will stay with you and love you for the rest of my Life. My Wife, My Darling, My Best Friend and my Only Love. Florance Yong.

2005-12-11T23:17:00.000+08:00

She says: After almost 2mths of procrastination, laziness and 'idealess', our ring pillow is FINALLY done!! So happy and the pillow turn up to be very nice ... Hope it will be as successful as our invitation card ...

Jus went for my 2nd fiting and AT's first fitting today. Abt 90% satisfy wif my WG wif the details but the front part looks abit weird to me. Cant hurt the designer heart by requesting to remove those crystal right? And AT mind revealing my belly button lor ...

As for EG, super headache leh ... Jus managed to try a few EG today. Either the coordinator is lazy or couldn't be bother to bring more gown as today is weekend?? Crap. Those fashion show gowns I requested to try all never prepare for me. Really cant commit unless tat i tried tat gorgeous gown i saw at last fashion show.

Chosen my hand bouquet for ROM and we will get someone to pick it up for us on the ROM day. Our gown and suit will collect the day b4 ...

2005-12-01T17:13:00.000+08:00

She says: Today is the 1st of Dec. 24 days to our ROM. 24 days to become 'MRS'. 24 days to being called an 'auntie'. How come guys never change status huh? Is it y they are still so popular even after marriage?? That's pretty unfair isn't it? Erm ... I not being negative here lah but jus wanna complain. Dunno how my future prospective employer will see me when i go for interviews after my ROM???

I jus gave my philatelic colleague our invitation cards for sending out. Hey! That's one of the staff benefit that we enjoy ba ... FREE postage. Hope u guys will recv the 'golden ticket' soon. Its quite 'limited edition' as we wan to keep group small and pirvate. Jus wanted to invite a few close frens and in the end I tink we abit exceed our initial plan. hehehe ...

2005-11-20T12:28:00.000+08:00

She says: Hi guys! Its me again. Alone at AT's hse, waiting for my lunch and him to come back from work. Woke up 'quite' early for a sunday morning. Expected to slp until quite late cos of yday's tiring day at my colleague's wedding. Finished ironing AT's shirts and pants for next working week. Watched 2 episodes of Sex and the City and now I find time surfing the net and writing blog.

Talking abt my colleague's wedding. First of all, I overslept. Suppose to wake up at 6am and reach sk MRT to meet another colleague. In the end, the jie mei who lives the nearest was the last person to reach and that's me lah!

I dunno if its intentionally or the groom too nervous liao. He forgot the flowers for his bride and he went back to get. So he arrived at the bride's place almost 8am. That only leaves us half an hr to games. But the games part was smooth so we managed to played all the 4 games ... But I tink the groom is bearing a grudge on me cos I snatched all his ang bao. Hahaha .. Me too fierce lah. Dun tink he wanted to give us tat stack of ang baos initially but later I ask him can take anot he say can ... Tink pai sei to take back ba ... But later I got give him a big ang bao for the dinner leh.

Another process of travelling to and fro until 2plus we finally can go hm for rest. I napped from 3.30 to 5pm. Slept too much cos I have so much things to so. Got to feed my pets, doll up and such. But AT was bz at work too so he cant pick me up tat early too. Ended up he arrived at the time I jus finished dolling up. Hehehe ... Nice timing!

Dinner was good. At first still worry that we will not be full after the dinner. Still plannin where to go for supper leh. But potion was jus sufficient. Both if us cannot eat too much also cos we got to watch our waistline. Hehehehe ....

After this wedding, I tink its time for me to 'retire' from the jie mei industry liao. Anyway my jie mei resume got a black mark too. My colleague was quite heartache that I bullied his hubby that she told AT that she will do the same to him. Anyway, my marital status is changing and pple might not call me to be jie mei and I heard cannot do more than 3 times. I have used up my 3 chances after yday's wedding ....

2005-11-16T16:29:00.000+08:00

She says: Last weekend, we burnt our pockets again. We bot those couple tshirt to wear for the photoshoot. Almost 60 bucks for 2 tshirts leh. Not really couple tshirt though. Jus same design in differ size lor. Then I bot a necklace to wear for ROM. I went to see the necklace thrice liao then only bot it during the 3rd time. Finally managed to convince AT after trying tube wif that necklace.

We printed our ROM invitation cards last nite. AT spent a nite designing the card and finished printing yday. AT is very proud of the card cos we DIY the whole thing. One less thing to worry. The next one shld be ring pillow. Still under construction ... Sianz ...

Dunno when shld we start to invite pple. Seems abit early cos its still one mth plus from xmas. But scare got to inform them early so that they will set aside that day for us but at the same time worry they are unable to commit. Haiz ... Still got to get address from them if we were to mail out the cards. Suddenly feel getting married is such a hassle task!!

2005-11-13T12:49:00.000+08:00

She says: Hi guys! Its has been quite some time since I drop a note here. Been bz plus lazy lah ... Been watching healing hearts part 3 everyday once I got hm from work. Its the 2nd week w/o tuition. Time for some R & R mah ...

I din even logon to tok abt my first fitting experience. I still consiering whether to post pics of tat day or keep u guys suspend till the actual day or till u guys see our wedding pics ...

The first look of my WG (while its still inside the protective netting cover) tink i gave a 'Har ....' sound. Wasn't really as expected. But once I tried it on, I tink its gorgeous! HAHAHAHA! I feel it makes me got tat 'princess' look. (Hehehe ... Tink I am getting thick skin. Dear .. Can i hear some comments from u when u first see me in tat gown?)

I guess I was too shocked or blur. I jus wear for 5mins w/o even take a good look at it then i change it out liao. No kick leh ... I din even check the colors are correct anot. *pout* When the designer ask me whether i wan to add beads to the ribbon part then i jus ans her wif a blur look. So she say she will do the design for me. Lucky thing is she din ask me top up to add swanroski crystals to my gown. AT worries that w/o crystals maybe will look abit dull. But I rather top up to buy his MTM suit back, provided its nice lah ....

As for EG, OTR definitely cannnot be compared to MTM one. Tink shld be my prefectionist mindset again. Either the top part nice but the bottom wasn't that ideal else the other way round. So diffcult to choose. Somemore our AD is 7mths later. Really dare not commit a gown that i like it at least 90%. Perfectionist rem? Anyway, I got KIV a fashion show gown. The top part wasn't tat 'perfect'. But AT loves it!! The moment I step out of fitting in tat gown, he said "That's the one!" Probably he is tired of seeing me fashion-ing for 2hrs and hope the thing can end earlier or see until eyes blur liao ... Whahahah ....

Then ... In order to 'prepare' myself for the ROM and PS, I spend a BIG bomb on skincare product for the past week. Not convenient to reveal the amt lah cos scare AT will scold but hopefully can see results on my ROM and PS *wink*

Oh ya. Forgot to mention I went to book a short trip to bbk/pattaya on Friday. Mini honeymoon after our ROM. Heard that pattaya is worse than our sentosa here ... Wasn't tat keen but wedding coming so better find something budget. Hehehehe ....

NOW ... I am alone at AT's hse, waiting for my sis to knock off from work n fetch me hm to change into proper attire for cycling later.

2005-10-25T00:11:00.000+08:00

He says :As what people always says, Time is just ain't enough. Today happen to be my birthday, but it's not the best of birthday that I have spent, I will tell you Y later. But my darling never fails to surprise mi. She secretly brought mi a marble cheese cake from Secret Recipes. A very nice and tasty cake.

What realli bored mi is the fact that One of my colleague Derek is leaving by next week and Another of my colleague Joseph is away on reservist. It make mi the onli one left on the list to handles lots of stuff. I will need to attend the cases log from helpdesk, PC rollout, Notebook rollout, Adhoc Requests and also attending to the VIP. Tonnes of work for mi to do. hai so sad. But dun think there is any other way out.

Think let's not take abt something so sian any more. Let's take about Life other then work ok?

There is a WIS for SengKang this week, Darling and I are quite sad to hear this news but we have thought about this situation b4 but it's always tempting for this stuff to occur. My darling went down to take the brochures for the flats and found out that the queue number have already reach the 2000 mark. Lots of ppl interested in the flat over SengKang and punggol I believe. AFter some discussion, I believe we didn't make the wrong choice. But jus the distance is abit far from our work place.
But I think we should be able to handle tat in the long Run.

There are still quite an amount of stuff we did not do for our ROM. Think we better buck up haha. Even the guest lists is not out yet. Our Rings have not been engraved ("Proof of our love"), We have jus decide that my darling will personally sew the ring pillow for our ROM. hehe : ) We have also got the materials at Spotlight. I hope that end of the day, We will have a realli nice pillow for out ROM. We are still deciding should we get a pair of weddin bears for the day. And there are still so many other stuff. My darling will have her first fitting for her gown on 2nd Nov and on that day she will also try to find her gown for ROM. I will need to go down to try my suit on the 12 Nov.

Even though we are not very well prepared haha hope end of the day Everything will turn out PreFect~! :)

2005-10-10T10:36:00.000+08:00

She says: After reading my sis post at her blog abt her fren's surprise birthday celebration for her, I realised I shld be the one that have no frens. Tat day AT was mentioning both of us dun have 'true' frens who we can pour our hearts to, give us unlimited help and always there for us frens. What happen?? Could it be we were too busying 'pak taw-ing' that we neglected all our precious frens in the first place?

I couldn't help it but to feel REAL disappointed lor. I dunno if u all realised anot but i din write anything abt my birthday celebration cos there is basically NONE. Jus went out wif AT and my 'not so close' fren - Dennis. Dun tell me I only hav the 2 of them to rem my birthday?

Ok lah. Agnes did rem and jio me out lah. Actually I am toking abt 'those' grp of pple who dunno how to compromise all the birthday gals' schedule and arrange a day that all of us free to come out one. AT and I went to watch the famous musical Snow.Wolf.Lake on my bday mah. But they could actually arrange the outing on tis day where obviously tat i couldnt make it one.

Pardon me ... I am someone who speaks my mind lor. I try to control at times but bottling up feelings r not good for health ok! And I have super power RAM lor. I can rem things for yrs. Some things jus hard to forget ....

I guess I only have AT in this world as my bf, hubby, fren, buddy and wat else ah???

2005-10-05T21:37:00.000+08:00

She says: I realised I always write post-dated stuff. YDAY was Ivan and Cindy's wedding. I was the jie mei and AT was last min being asked to be the brothers. Super tired lor. I woke up at 6.30 in order to each Cindy's hse b4 7.45. We prepared 3 games and 10 qns to test Ivan's understanding of his bride. But too bad. We only managed to play one game and asked 3 qns then we got to let the groom in liao.

We travel to and fro the bride and groom's parents hse (BP to CCK to BP then back to CCK). Travel until I almost vomit out last nite dinner (I din take breakfast BTW). By 3pm, it was time to check in hotel liao. Start to have headache. (I need my usual dosage of caffaine to cure!!)

During the dinner, I got to help out at the reception. First few to go down the ballrm but last to go in for the dinner (Jus b4 the bride n groom march in) All becos of some ultra 'dao' pple who havent come at 8.30pm!!

Talking abt the ballroom. Somehow abit disapponited wif the embience, deco, table setting and layout of the ballrm. Haiz ... Unfortunately we ald sign up the dinner package and this is gg to be our ballrm as well. Bo bian. Got to 'make do' wif it else pray hard that no other wedding at the other ballrm and we can shift over. Hehehe ...

2005-10-03T23:20:00.000+08:00

She says: Hey! Yday I had an enjoyable, fun, 'fruitful' and shiok shopping trip yday. One BIG hole in my wallet lor cos I paid for my sis shoppping as well. It was actually a pre-bday celebration my sis but I ended up buying more stuff than her. (Did I? I tink we bot same number of stuff lah). I bot a camisole from my fav shop (Osmose), a 70% off pants from veeko and most imptly my wedding shoes!!

Seems like I havent get over the excitment hor. Jus went for first appt at the bridal shop then the same weekend i went to buy my shoes liao. Well, I always have 'weakness' when it comes to shoes mah. (Tink in fact my biggest weakness is shopping freak!!)

Actually I saw this particular pair of shoes mths ago. But we dunno my gown color yet so couldn't buy it when it was having 20% off. This time round more shiok - 50% off sia!!! Wah! Die die must buy liao. Though its not in typical bridal shoes color (ivory) cos they dun have my size liao :....( but its in a nicer color - peach!! After wedding mayb can still wear for others' wedding dinner mah *wink wink*

2005-09-29T23:57:00.000+08:00

He says: Wow ...didn't realli expected it to be so fast, it's onli 8 Months 3 Weeks and 6 Days before our AD, but actually it's onli 2 Months 3 Weeks and 6 Days to our ROM... We had already Filed the Notice of Marriage at ROM site heheh. But I think it's just the starting of more exciting and wonderful moments....But I believe at some point we will feel headache over what decisions to make also haha...Think this is wedding, troublesome but it's always worth it.

2005-09-29T23:23:00.000+08:00

She says: Yoz! We had our first appt wif the bridal shop yday! Haha. But 'unfortunately', yday there is only one excited person in the shop. Though AT wore his brand new shoes, hoping to try out suits as well and take measure for his MTM jacket and pants. But the tailor only came on Sat. Haiz ... Made both of us took leave, tot can achieve more stuff.

Talking back to my gown. After showing the designer what I like and tried a few gowns for the cutting, she came out wif a sketch of my dream gown! (I took pics of the design but promised my designer that I wont post in internet leh) She combine 3 differ styles/types/patterns that i wanted into ONE!! I really love it ... Cant wait for the first fitting in nov ...

Pardon me if i sound abit over-excited here. But i tink the most exciting part in the wedding preparation process is of cos the gown lah. I tink most gals will dream and think abt their wedding gown lor ... Who cares abt the wedding dinner man!

2005-09-12T00:00:00.000+08:00

He says: Hey guys, here are some of our graduation pictures. The ceremony is held yesterday at Ritz Carlton Hotel. After 2 years of hardwork, our efforts are finally paid off. Although a degree is nothing great nowadays, but like what ppl always says: Since every one on the street have one, If you dun have, you tends to lose out. Just a pity that we can't get into a local University. "Y am I so lazy in Poly last time?? too late to regret. Hehe"

2005-09-06T00:21:00.000+08:00

See What we have got here. Isn't this pair of Precious Moment Doll cute?? We feel that it is realli nice. We are going to use it for our wedding and Rom hehe....

Think it's something special and different from others : ) so bored that ppl always use bear. Didn't have much idea on wat to use at first. Thanks to my darlin's shopping madeness, found such a nice pair of doll for our Weddin...

Maybe you all will like it too.....

Today just applied leave for Peishi weddin...Florance is going to be the sister for her on that day and Peishi have asked mi to open up the car door for wenqiang. So old liao still got this kinda of chance haha...quite surprise. But think this is the last time that i will have this kind of chance liao lah hehe...So maybe i will treasure it.

2005-08-26T00:44:00.001+08:00

He says: Hi, Today is a happy day for mi, as i managed to convert to desktop engineer hehe..although it's nothing great, but to mi, at least it's a step forward. Being in helpdesk is ok...but Dun know where i can go from there. Looking forward to Climbing up the Coporate ladder, like wat my boss says hehe....So dun bother if i sound silly being happi haha...

Wow our ROm is realli gettin near and I'm gettin FAT...BAD NEW AR........

2005-08-15T17:08:00.000+08:00

She says: I feel so 'lost' this morning. For nothing serious actually but i cannot help it but feel rather upset tat I have finally finished watching korean drama - 'Da Chang Jin'. By right shld be happy right? By sacrificing sleeping time and personal time to do other things, for the past few weeks, most of the time i stayed at home and had 'da chang jin marathron'.

This show talks abt a great woman call Jang-geum who strike to enter the palace to find out the cause of her parents death but not out for revenge lah. She started working in the royal kitchen as assistant then kanna framed and got kicked of palace. Then she came back to palace as a lady doctor. (switch of field sia! hahaha). Of cos lah! A show wont be exciting without male lead. My fu ti diao da ren named Min Jung-ho. I going to miss him sia! Missed those bo liao scene where they 2 'flirt' wif each other in a conservative manner. Well .. They live in ancient times mah ...

http://english.tour2korea.com/02Culture/TVMiniseries/daejangguem.asp?kosm=m2_6&konum=1

2005-08-10T21:59:00.000+08:00

He says: Wow times flies....it's already after National Day....It is also getting nearer and nearer to our ROM. Haven't realli started preparing haha.. actually dun know wat to prepare also....feeling abit anxious about it but it seems like a long while from now also .... dun knw wat to feel haha.... But i know we will be getting quite busy starting from Sept.
Firstly is our Graduation ceremony on the 10th of Sept, My darling birthday on the 16th Sept..and we are watching "Xue Lang Hu" on that very day, (She adds: We got to efile for our ROM when the clock strikes 12 o'clock on 25th sept) then it's our fitting day on the 28th Sept. (She comments: Its 'first appt' not fitting. First fitting is when our gown is done up and we go try it :p ) In Oct, I will be having my BD on the 24th... In Nov, we will try to contact HDB for the key of our flat and the AD itself on the 25th Dec. Having out photo shoot on the 1st Week of Jan 06, and I will be going to my reservist on the 7th of Jan ...Up till then this is the schedule...dun know if i miss anything or nt...Darling did i???

See the logo? The Future is ours to make! Very meaningful.....

2005-08-04T16:16:00.000+08:00

She says: I got a shock this morning. I went to singapore pools website to check last night 4D result becos AT says we our unit no came out. To my surprise, I saw my IC under 'starter' group. Oh my god! Exact the same 4 digits came out and I rem I got buy the number yday. Thanks to AT whose IC's no came out last Sun (Aiya! But we din buy :((( ) then i tot of buying my ic no. Hehehe ...

2005-08-01T23:11:00.000+08:00

Pictures of Our Love Nest.

2005-07-28T22:48:00.000+08:00

He says: Wow finally the big day has come, most interesting of all is that I'm not keeping track on all of the previous mentioned units. When talking on the phone last nite, my darling happens to mention the unit #04-226 at blk 686B. Which happens to be the show flat. The design of the flat can be seen in http://www.hdb.gov.sg/hdbvsf/eaap006p.nsf/ImagesView/0507cck5room_686B/$file/686B.htm#

Both of us took leave today in order to visit this particular unit, it turns out that the flat was quite well done. I like the unit very much but i believe my darling dun realli like the idea of staying on the 4th floor. After visiting the show flat, we proceed down to HDB HUB for selection of flat. Somehow or rather, my darling is realli nice and supportive in gettin the show flat, hence we decided to make that unit the first choice.

During the 45 mins wait at the lobby, my darling told mi that she feel like she is on the stage waiting for the title of a Beauty contest haha. It was a realli exciting moment of our life I believe, for every sec that ticks away, you could feel your blood rush through your body every time u see the unit appear in Blue on the screen, which means that it is still availiable.

While in the queue, at first we though that there almost 23 people infront of us as the queue number is staying at 130. But in actual fact, less then 10 ppl turn out for the selection. When our number FLASH on the screen, I felt so happy that the unit is still availiable. Even though the unit is more expensive, but the design realli wins my heart.

Finally we own our love nest.
Blk 686B Chua Chu Kang Crescent #04-226

2005-07-27T22:22:00.000+08:00

He says: Just reach home after paying a 2nd visit to Chua Chu Kang estate with darlin's parent to look for a potential love nest of ours. Had a few units in mind. But i wonder if we will have the chance to get the one that we like, since our queue number is 153.
Below are some of the units that we are hoping to get.
Blk 687C #15-364 one of the unit which have a extra balcony but no walls and door for the balcony.
Blk 688A #11-354 the unit with balcony.
Blk 687A #13-400 With a huge but weird looking living room.
Blk 690C #13-84 the unit with Da Li Shi.
Blk 686B #07-226 unit opposite of Peishi.

2005-07-25T21:16:00.000+08:00

He says: Wow got a shock this morning. Was on my way to office when suddenly my darling called mi to tell mi that the WIS is out for Bukit Batok, Bukit Panjiang and Chua Chu Kang. I was already at outram at that point in time, just one more stop away from my office.
As I was rushing a project, so I'm in a dilemma I ask my darling to go down for mi, which I knew was not quite nice. Cause she went down for the previous WIS also. As i can sense that she is very unhappy about this, I knew that I need to be around this time. Hence I call my manager to tell her that I'll be late for work.
When I reach HDB, the taxi that my darling is in is still jam at Defu Lane. Haha,
and the queue number is already 153. It was onli in the late part of the day that we knew that HDB have email us about the release around 6am.
We were so sad to get such a BIG number.

2005-07-21T15:37:00.000+08:00

She says: Hi all, tis is my first contribution entry to tis blog so pls pardon me
for being sooooo long winded ...
Actually yday after work, I planned to go hm to eat my mum's dinner one. That's the only day tat I can go hm stright after work but ... A little flash back: Ever since, I start giving tuition last week, I seems to have REAL little time for myself. Last week schedule: Mon & thurs - tuition, Tue - a wake, Wed - my sis's convo, fri - yoga. I tink only Fri I went hm to eat. Tis week more jia lat. Mon & Fri - Tuition (Got to skip my yoga liao :..( ), Tue - Dinner wif colleague to cele bday, Thurs -
wedding dinner. Wed?? Happening day.

It was a last min arrangement to meet AT(Alan Teo) after work one. Cos GSS is ending tis weekend and we wanted to get me a pair of ear-rings so have to be b4 the sales end wat. I left the office sharp to go tampines first. Wanna do last min shopping at my fav shop - Osmose. 20% off until 24th July. Managed to get a blouse but wasn't my ideal color but as long as AT likes, I am ok lor. I dressed for him to see also wat ....

After tat we went to dinner. Wanted to eat our fav teppanyaki one but ever since the whole century square revamped, the food court moved to 3rd floor and my teppanyaki no longer there liao. So yday there are 2 disappointed souls ...

Wah! After dinner is where the exciting part comes. CS opened a new bikini shop call 'Sheer Romance' (crap name). Although I still very 'meaty' to wear bikini, i still cant resist owning a woman's fav outfit. I even bot 2 sets leh!! When I didnt even know if I dare to wear it out or any chance to wear anot. Hmmm ... Must plan for some beachy trips liao. How abt Turi beach dear???

Next stop, we need to shop for ear-rings for my daily wear n ROM. We went to budget jeweller like SK Jewellery for something 'practical'. But the quality wasn't good so we decided to KIV lor. Then we walked past lee hwa. Been contributing lots of cash to them liao and their stuff always abit pricy one. Then we came to Soo Kee jewellery. Wanted something close to our budget so the salesman (thumbs up for Daniel Ho, the hardworking guy) recommended their 'special buys'. 0.20 carat (abit small *pout*) 4 claw ear-rings. He said definitely better quality then SK so we
decided to take it. Its abit small then wat we looking for lah but at times 'quality' also as impt. Hehehe.

Oh! A BIG surprise! I bump into a long time fren, Sharon. Havent been seeing each other for quite something so the moment we met we couldnt stop talking!

Hahaha ... Extra extra!! U noe who we bumped into at lee hwa? (We went to get the 'extension', the snakey dangling thing for my ear-rings) AT's campmate - Mr Ah Beng!! I tink he went there to get a proposal ring for his gf. So sweet. I dunno izzit concidence or he saw AT's post on my ring. He got EXACTLY the same ring as mine!! Ay ... 0.27 very small leh. Dun niao leh. Get a bigger stone. Hahaha ....

2005-07-16T23:17:00.000+08:00

He says: Today we cross over the Linkway into JB. Didn't realli had a purpose to go there. But since my darlin was so interested in going to shop around, so we went to JB with Phang, Dennis and his friend Yi ming.
It had been a long time since i step foot in JB, nothing much have change. Still the same old JB that i knew.

As my hair is quite long, I had my hair cut at one of the salon over at Holiday plaza and it cost mi RM$22. My darlin also get to enjoy her pedicure for RM$47 with Wax treatment. During the nite time, we had seafood near taman sentosa, quite a few dishes and it cost onli RM$73 in total. Quite a bargain.

If you want to enjoy good services and cheap food, maybe u would like to head over there one day. Dun realli like the place tat much though. It is still Home Sweet Home.

2005-07-14T23:16:00.000+08:00

He says: Wow...quite busy the last few days haha. not able to update my Zoo adventure. Think got to leave it until the weekend to update already. Well if you are still visiting this page, thanks for your support.

Something bad happened to Liyue's family in the passed week. Feel real sad for her..Hope that she will be able to get back on her feet real soon. Hope our group of friends wun be more united in normal times not until something like tat happens. Life is so unpredictable and so scary. So lets just treasure what we have right now at this moment ok?...I treasure you Darling....

2005-07-10T23:26:00.000+08:00

He says: Today, We went to the Singapore Zoo as my Darling managed to get free ticket pass, which allows us to get in for free. It have been long since we ever step foot in the Zoo. The trip was quite interesting, But as i'm getting tired today hehe i will post the details for you tomorrow. Stay tune.

2005-07-09T23:00:00.000+08:00

He says: Wow haven't updated my Blog for nearly a whole week already hehe,think i'm getting lazy again. But no way i am going to stop updating this site. So stay tune for more entry ok?

After looking around for a few videographer, we have finally decided on Emotion Pics. http://www.emotionpix.com/ Although it's not realli that cheap but we feel that their skill are better than some of the rest. The price is around $1188. They also gave us a Free A1 poster, which we can use on our weddin dinner. Not bad afterall, as the poster will cost us about $150. You can take a look at their site if you are also looking around for a videographer.

Yesterday, Florance and Mi met up with my Army friends for a dinner gathering, we were supposed to meet at 7pm but in there end, onli Ah beng and Yeo was there one time haha, i was late for 10mins as i was hold up in work. As we did not make a booking that nite and the place was full of ppl, we had to change to eat at Tung Luk at China SQ. The food was quite nice, and there was not so much ppl there. So we get to have some quite moments to talk abt our happenings and the past events that we have been through. After dinner we went to sing Ktv at Party World. Although the singing was bad but the gather was not so bad.(I believe). Eric sings quite well though haha, do you believe it guys?
Ppl who are present. Mi, Florance, Yeo, Phang, Ah beng, Mr and Mrs Eric Wong, Chee Hwee, Hwee Chong and Jason. Those guy who did not appear, maybe you would like to join us next time ok?

2005-07-04T23:31:00.000+08:00

He say: We have finally engaged our ROM photographer. As we have do not have much choices in mind, we decide to engage Kah Heng, some of his works can be found at http://kahheng.fotopic.net/, take a look if you are interested. He got some realli good stuff in there. Hehe

Last nite, i stay over at my Darlin place, as i usually sleep in the "guest room", last nite i decided to sleep inside my Darlin's bedroom in a sleeping bag. Never did i expect that her mum will give mi a banana kick in the middle of the nite, haha as the room was realli dark.

And she thought that i was feeling hot that i move to Darlin's room to sleep Hence she did not off the air-con but actually i was feeling reali cold last nite. In the end, i was shivering all over in the morning haha.

Her sis angeline also complain that i snore so loud that she could not sleep last nite, next time i have to let her sleep first so that she wun be disturb by mi. Haha.....

Tomorrow we are going to watch War of the World after work. Heard that it's not a bad show. We are full of expection. Hope we wun be disappointed.

2005-06-30T22:59:00.000+08:00

Today morning i got a feeling that HDB will release something for the public. Never did I expect that it will launch a BTO at punggol. I was abit disappointed as I just let go this very good chance to own a flat at Tivela, a Premium 4 rm flat project in Seng Kang, I didn't take up that project due to the time that will be taken to build the flat.

Even though disappointed, the onli thing that we could do is to wait for the next WIS or worse come to worse. We will have to get a resale flat. Hope that we will be able to get a new flat soon.

Yesterday i did something to make my darling very angry, as I wanted to catch dinner and watch a movie with my poly mates, I ask my darling if I could go. Without thinking that she might want to join us. I believe it was realli selfish on my side, I should have called her along if I'm realli someone who cares for her feelings. I was so insensitive at times(ManY Times), I hope she have forgiven mi and the next time I will be sure to call her along. Unless she is not willing to attend.

Today is the first time i sort of mention to my poly mates that I'm are getting ROM with Florance in Dec and our customary will be in June. I think it's the rite thing to do as we have been friends for so long. They are quite surprise as "Sam", my another classmate who says that he is planning, for a long time, did not make this move while I am the one who executed it. Hehe, actually I'm planning for a long time too...just that i didn't say that cus there is no $$ in my pocket : )

2005-06-29T00:33:00.000+08:00

Today we went to Lee Hwa Jewellery to collect my darling Diamond ring. It's quite small in size, onli 0.268 carats F VVS1. It belongs to the Destinee Series of diamond.

We got this size as we are having a budget constraint, but dun worri darling, I will getting you a bigger and better one once we got the chance ok? dun be so sad. I promise.

The ring that my darling longs to have has finally arrived. So happi.... Actually we had got our engagement ring already too....will try to see if i have the picture for you guys to see....

2005-06-27T23:10:00.000+08:00

Nothing much realli special happens today. Just tried to get hold of the photographer for our ROM photos today but it turns out one of them Wai Peng is being booked for tat day, and hence we are onli left with Kah Heng, you can visit him at http://kahheng.fotopic.net/ But I worry about his services for the whole day he did not try to call mi but onli liaise with mi through sms, called his several times but he did not pick up. When I set the timing to meet him on this coming Saturday at 4pm, he didn't even confirm it with mi. Kinda Off.
How I wish Wai Peng in still available.....

Went to meet my Ntuc Income advisor since my army days, as she wanted mi to put in my nomination. Wow tat's long. She didn't try to put mi any policy though, to my surprise. But she got explain to mi a few policy after I requested that I wanted to know more. It was then that I realize that as we are getting marry and setting up a family. Insurance is a very important thing that we need to know about. Since my darling dun like to be involve in this, think i got to take up the initative on this. Darling it's realli important u know

2005-06-26T22:03:00.000+08:00

Today happens to be the 2nd day of my Mum's foodstall opening. The location is at Blk 324 somewhere in Bukit Batok. I went to help yesterday and today starting from 6am. It's hard work man my friends. But is alrite, so think we can still survive there. Just went through a failed venture at Toh Guan East. Suffered heavy loses there.

Meet my GF's family for dinner to celebrate Fathers' Day at Crystal Jade at Toa Payoh. The food was quite nice and the Xiao Long Bao taste alrite. Maybe you would like to have a try next time?

Here are some of the photos we have taken.

Her mum and dad.

Her Family.

Y am i not in there? Well someone got to take the picture right?
Hehe.

2005-06-26T14:31:00.000+08:00

My darling with the bouquet of 99 roses that she is not
impress with hehe. Well think it still look ok rite?

Here is another picture.

A picture of mi and her.

2005-06-25T23:52:00.000+08:00

As today is our last half year anniversary before our ROM,
I intended to propose to my darling, so i went to look for a
good restaurant for our anniversary celebration, which we
have not realli celebrated for a few years. The answer to my
search-->Desire, a restaurant in The Scarlet Hotel. Hence I
booked the place one week ago and secretly order a bouquet
of 99 roses for my darling. But somehow she manage to find
out. So it was no surprise.

When we reach the restaurant, it was a realli nice and cosy
place, the food was nice and ambience was very nice. We order
a bottle of Red Wine, which makes both of us realli high and
sleepy in the end. Haha

Well there was no actual propose, but during our chit chat at
the restaurant we both mutually understood that I realli
wanna to make her my legal wife and she is all reali to accept
that. Well seems like my proposal is a success even when no
words about it is mention. Maybe this is wat happens when you
are together for too long and no proposal have been make until
6 month before the ROM. But i still believe it's better late then
never!

I Love You my DArling.......... 4Ever & EvErAfTeR~!~!

2005-06-25T15:00:00.000+08:00

Happi Anniversary Darling. This is my present for you on our 5 and 1/2 years anniversary.
Hope you will like it!!

2005-06-25T09:30:00.000+08:00

Our ROM
Date: 25th December 2005 (Xmas Day)
Location: Amara Hotel (Pool Side)
Time: 2.30pm to 5.30pm
Guest: Our Family And Close Friends.

Our AD
Date: 25th June 2006
Location: Meritus Mandarin Singapore (The Belvedere)
Time: 7.00pm to 11.00pm
Guest: Our Family And All our Friends

1999-12-25T18:52:00.000+08:00

*How We came to be together? *

Singapore Polythenic is where it all begin, both of us are studying in the same course but we are not in the same class.

I think it must be fate that brought us together, putting us in the same Japanese class though. Me being a hyperactive and talkative guy is sure to attract attention from
people. Did I Darlin? But most probably Bad attention. HeHe. We were never that close in the first place.

We came to become closer when I "Happen" to ask for her ICQ number. It was in ICQ where we get to know each other better. And also those late calls to her after the ICQ sessions.

I dun think myself as of a romantic person, but i actually went back to join Chinese Orchestra (100% Fuel by her), just to get close to her.(Smart Move? hehe)

I came to realise that she feels for mi too when she started treating the Ah Beng that i'm SPECIAL.(Kinda of Feeling, No way to explain.)

Up till today I am still wondering what she sees in a Ah Beng like mi.

As we spend more and more time together during those Orchestra practices, dinner after that, phone calls, ICQ,that my feeling for her grew even as i dun know it. It was only once that she
got angry of mi over(something that i had forgotted), that i realise that she does hold an important place in my heart.(as it starts to bleed, it have been a long time since i have felt that.)

And ...Bah...Bah.... We finally got together on the Xmas day of 1999. I still remembered that it was around 11.40pm, that i called her and told her "Will you let mi take care of you from today onwards?" and she replied "Yes". Up till today, 5 and 1/2 years later,
She have been taking care of mi till this very day.(Dun be confuse, u heard mi right.) HeHe